I love my son to no end.....

Today I write because I have a heavy heart:
 There are some things that should not happen in one's life that include your children, When they get older they seem to forget that you are their Mother not their best friend that they can walk over or walk on..... That said,  I have a great problem that does not allow me to separate me from what or how I feel about things and that sometimes gets in the way of me and the relationship that I have with my children... see  I have NO FILTER when it comes to ME.... I love to talk to lots of people and I am friends with lots of people..
 One thing I have learned in life is I am the only one that can control how I feel, NO ONE ELSE CAN DO THAT, if you allow how someone else caused you to feel it can ruin the person that you are, and if you allow that feeling to engross yourself being for the rest of your life you will not be you...... That said.....
One of my sons  is pissed off at me for being "friends" on Facebook with an ex of his and how I reacted to his text message  to me long after he BLOCKED me on facebook instead of just messaging me or calling me...... now he is allowing how she made him feel take control of his life up to this point... it is up to him not me to release the way he feels, as I said you are the only person that can control how you feel, when you allow the feeling that someone caused you to feel to take control of yourself being than it is your own damn fault not theirs that you have not gotten over it......( as I said I have no filter), my only hope is that he will see that I meant no harm,  and all he needed to do was call me and i would have unfriended her right then and there because I love my son to no end.....
   Yes I have unfriended his ex on facebook because I love all three of my children and do not wish to make them uncomfortable over such little things in life...  If he wishes not to call or talk to me that is his choice..... but I still love him with all of my being and always will.........

 He is as I am Stubborn to no end..........